Thinking about what to write here, I can't believe she's already 9 weeks old. I know I'll probably be saying that a lot, "I can't believe she's 3 months... 6 months... a year!" but, it's amazing how quickly the time passes. Being together these past 70 days, I've learned so much about her personality, her preferences, and her temper. She definitely keeps us on our toes.
She's been sleeping about 5 to 6 hours at a time during the night, usually waking up around 3-4 am to eat. Then, she goes back to sleep for another 4-5 hours! I really can't complain about not getting enough sleep, she's definitely taken after me in that category. Her usual routine is to wake up around 7 ish, she eats, then naps while I pump. She's the most snuggly and calm in the mornings, so we usually play on her activity mat, a little tummy time, and a little back time, while I have my breakfast. This is also the best time to load her up in the car for shopping trips or errands, since she's so docile and amenable. She eats every 2-3 hours still, so I keep the trips short, to avoid meltdown.
We try to get a bath in every night, after her dinnertime feeding, then book time, and bed. This is the ideal evening schedule, but it is subject to change based on our plans. Weekends tend to be the toughest time to stay on track, due to social engagements, date night, or some other activity. She doesn't seem to mind the deviation, but I think a constant routine would eventually become meaningful to her, if only so she knows what to expect. We've been trying to get her to bed earlier than 11pm, which seemed to be what she liked initially. The past few nights, we've gotten her to bed before 10, and she's done really well. I would love to get her used to a bedtime of 8, so that we could have some time to ourselves in the evening. She really likes bath time, loves the warm water, the soapy bubbles and us singing to her as we get her clean. She's always full of smiles, even though we still need to learn the real words to "Splish Splash."
She's gotten pretty used to the eat-activity-nap schedule that we've worked out, and I'm starting to get tuned into her sleepy signals, so I can get her wrapped up and put to bed before she gets fussy. Though, she still has a fussy time around 7pm, sadly, right after Robin gets home and wants to spend time with her. He wondered for a while whether or not it was him that was making her fussy... I'm not sure how long this evening fussiness will last, hopefully not too much longer. She's been sleeping these past few nights in her own room, and I am impressed at how much of a non-issue it was for her to switch from the bassinet in our room, to the crib in her room. So far, she seems to be a low-stress, roll with the punches kind of kid.
We've tried to keep our lives pretty similar to how it was before she was born, within reason. Meaning, we still hang out with friends and go to parties, we just take her along with us. Our first trip to Portland to see friends was a success, even though everything went wrong. Projectile vomit in the car-seat while walking through the mall to go to dinner, blow-out poopy diaper, crying, starving baby requiring frequent walking and finally nursing in the restaurant. Luckily, we brought emergency baby clothes, had a ton of baby wipes, and brought my hooter hider. And, it all worked out. It was just a lot of work.
We’ve taken her to BBQs, friends houses, even our old weekly volleyball games. Let me tell you, there’s nothing quite like getting all hot and sweaty and then trying to nurse a squirming, crying baby. Especially when it’s 80 degrees in the sun, trying to hide under a hot, tent-like nursing cover. Oh, and did I mention the mosquitoes?
I think things are getting easier, these trips out are confidence builders, to say the least. We get to experience worst-case scenarios, and deal with them. The upshot of these mishaps is that we realize they are survivable. Sure, it takes a lot of pre-planning and work at times, but we get through it. And, the best part, is that we get some measure of our old life back. The freedom is completely worth the extra time and effort.
I’ve also realized how understanding and supportive those around us are; even total strangers. I took Lauren for her first big grocery shopping trip a few weeks ago and managed to make it most of the way through the store before she lost it and started crying her head off. I was mortified, I did NOT want to be one of those people that annoy the hell out of everyone in the store with a crying baby. So, I kept trying to shush her, talk to her, or pacify her in some way. I kept waiting for someone to walk by and give me the stink eye, but I was surprised at just how understanding and helpful everyone was. All these grandmotherly women kept coming up and talking to her or smiling at me and I began to realize that most everyone has been there at some point in their lives. It was a great experience for me, and it helped me to relax a little bit. Babies are going to cry, whether you’re at home or in public, it just happens. I have to be okay with that fact, I can’t let it stress me out. I won’t take her to movies, weddings, funerals or other places it would be rude to have a screaming baby in, but I am going to live my life. That being said, she really doesn’t scream and cry all that often. We’ve been pretty lucky…
Being the "go with the flow" kind of kid that she is, she still has her likes and dislikes. I’m sure they will change as she grows and hits different milestones, but I thought it would be fun to list a few of those preferences here:
Likes:
- She loves looking in the mirror! She will catch her own eye when she’s on her changing table or activity mat, and will stare, smile and coo. It’s pretty adorable…
- She loves being swaddled to sleep. It’s impressive how she can be so fussy and tired, and it’s not until she’s all wrapped up snug that she can relax and fall asleep.
- Along with her swaddle, she loves her pacifier to suck on while drifting off. It’s amazing to see her fight sleep, until she gets that paci in her mouth and her eyes almost immediately shut.
- She loves bath time. The warm water, the bubbles and the spraying water, definitely make her a happy baby. We have taken so many pictures and videos of her in the bath, because she is so happy.
Dislikes:
- So far, she really doesn’t like tummy-time. We put her face-down on her activity mat, and she doesn’t last more than a few minutes before she gets frustrated and cries. We’ll keep trying though…
- She absolutely hates taking her vitamins. She makes the most hilarious faces and sounds after we give her the dropper. In her defense, it really smells pretty bad.
- She’s pretty particular about when she’ll take the pacifier. If she’s not interested, she will press her lips together or stick her tongue out and lets us know she’ll have none of it.
- There are certain holds that she hates being in. The cradle hold that we used to carry her around in is not fun for her anymore. I think she prefers to either look over a shoulder or out at the world.
She’s getting better at holding her head up, though it’s not very steady yet. She makes eye contact and tracks us as we move from side to side in her field of vision. She will grasp rattles and toys that we give her, and will hold onto them for a few seconds, but then drops them and forgets all about whatever she was holding. I can place her on her activity mat, and she’s happy for 10-15 minutes (on her back) and the last few times, I’ve caught her rolled onto her left side. I notice she’s most interested in turning her head to the left, but she does look to the right, though not as often. I’m working on getting her to spend more time looking to the right.
She takes a few long naps each day, usually a couple of hours in the morning and again in the afternoon. I have to decide whether or not to get chores done, or nap myself. Usually the nap wins.
Speaking of naps, I think that’s enough for one post. More of Lauren to come…
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